My wife got a raise. Sweet...
So we went out to dinner tonight in celebration. At the restraunt there was a group of people at a nearby table. One of the ladies at that table was significantly overweight. Normally, this would not bear mentioning, but apparently she ordered a pizza for dinner. A 14 inch, thin-crust, cheese pizza... for herself. But the worst part is, the waiter didn't even give her a plate. Whether this was her request or not, it just seemed amazingly tacky for her to have this big old pizza pan sitting in front of her while she munched away. Mind you, we ate a lot ourselves; possibly more than she did but it just looked bad. Either the waiter was bad or the woman just had no self-respect left. Crazy.
Plus we almost got T-boned on the way home. Guy pulled out of a parking lot and almost straight into the side of our car... which would've sucked big time for me, being in the passenger seat. But it didn't, so it's all good.

What am I thankful for... well... pretty much everything.
The obvious: my wife, my parents, my brother, my extended family, my friends, my health.
Nearly as obvious: living in a country where I'm free to disagree with my leaders, my neighbors, my friends; having the money to put good food on my table; having the time and resources to do this nonsense; having more than I need.
Not so obvious: the pain in my life that has made me understand how good I have it, not having as much as I want
and so much more...
Yeah... this doesn't begin to cover it, so I'll pick one specific thing that I never realized was something to be thankful for. My brother is a senior in college. He's got a lot of options open to him in the near future, and he doesn't really know what to do with them. He's made some decisions, but he's also changed a few fairly regularly. I think he's a little scared, a lot curious, and very excited. This is what I'm thankful for. The stage he is at, I was at 5 years ago. Different decisions had been made, and different plans were in the works, but the emotions, and curiousity, and trepidation were all similar. But from 5 years down the road I can look at him and see the strength of character and morals that he has will get him through the biggest transition of his life. He has a strong spirit that he owes almost entirely to two of the hardest-working parents in history. While he questions the structure of their beliefs, he lives by their spirit, and that in itself shows the strength of both him, and them. While he doesn't know where the path he's on is going to take him, he's prepared to head down that path with all his energy. I believe that he will do at least as well as I have, if not better, and I'm very happy with my life as a whole. While there are things I wish were different, there is little I can truly complain about. I'm thankful to see that the lives of those I love have so much potential for greatness. There's nothing more I could ask for in this world.

So, for Thanksgiving, my wife and I decided to blow off the day. We didn't want to cook or anything like that, so we got a bunch of easy to prepare snacky foods and a bunch of movies.
The movies we rented (in order that we watched them) were Star Trek: Nemesis, Casablanca, The Italian Job, Holiday Inn, and Punch Drunk Love.StarTrek: Nemesis was decent, but I can't say I'll miss the franchise if this is the end. The characters are still great, but with 5 different Star Trek series, and almost a dozen films, they are running out of things they can do that are truly new. As a Star Trek fan, I enjoyed the movie, but they just don't bring out the excitement that they used to for me. 7 out of 10Casablanca is, of course, a classic, and justifiably so. This movie has been seen and reviewed so many times that there's little I could say that would add to what's already out there. Suffice to say, if you've never seen Casablanca you've done yourself a disservice. If you've ever said "This looks like the begining of a beautiful friendship." or "Here's looking at you, kid." than you know that this movie is a part of life. 9 out of 10The Italian Job is the kind of movie that as a red-blooded, american male, I enjoyed. There were fast cars, stuff got blown up, there was humor, and a pretty girl to top it all off. What it didn't have was much in the way of anything new. New ways of doing old things... ways that were cool... but still nothing particularly new. Edward Norton's character was fairly two dimentional, which is dissapointing for someone as tallented as he is. Seth Green was the best part of the movie with some good one-liners and entertaining moments. This is the kind of movie to rent for a guys night, decent for background while playing cards and having a few beers. 6 out of 10Holiday Inn is another classic. Bing Crosby, Fred Astaire... This is the movie where "White Christmas" comes from. There is great singing and amazing dancing, and a pretty good story which uses a circular pattern of having a movie made about "Holiday Inn" as part of the plot of the movie. There are some things that are clearly dated (such as a blackface number) but on the whole, it's a classic that deserves to be such. 7 out of 10Punch-Drunk Love is an entirely different kettle of fish than the previous movies. This movie defies classification, and in-fact understanding to some extent. I'm not sure that I'm able to wrap my mind around it even now. As best I can tell, the movie was about relationships and how they give life meaning. People are all insane, especially when seen through the eyes of an outsider, but love can give that insanity reason and meaning. This movie is surreal and strange. Not at all what I would expect from Adam Sandler, but amazing in its own way. I want to watch it again, and my opinion of it may change if I do, but for now... 7 out of 10 (maybe 8)

So, my little brother came up this weekend from Iowa. He went to a concert at the metro with a couple of his friends. It was good to see him. We got to sit an chat for a while, and that was nice. Not that many years ago, that would never have happened. Somewhere along the way we've both matured... a lot. I guess it's one of those things, you either grow up or your life sucks. I'm glad that my brother is more than just my brother. I'm proud to call him my friend.
In the last couple days I've finished a couple books. First was The Teeth of the Tiger by Tom Clancy. I've read a lot of Clancy's stuff, and I've liked most of it. This one, not so much. I think he's trying to introduce replacement characters for Jack Ryan and John Clark, who are getting a little bit old to be doing the things they've done in earlier books. However the characters he's introducing in these are too far of a stretch for my tastes. They are much more two-dimentional and even a little more jingoistic than previous characters. Jack Ryan was his stand-by and John Clark was my favorite, so things were already going down-hill in my opinion. But oh well, perhaps the next will be better and he'll develop the characters more to the point where I can care about them, but for now, I give The Teeth of the Tiger a 6 out of 10.
The next book I read was The Ice Opinion by Ice T. This book was interesting, and entertaining. While I don't agree with some of Ice T's opinions, I really liked his outlook. His opinion was that the people who defend his First Amendment rights have been as in-effective as those who oppose what he says. He feels that the issue of what he's saying has been overshadowed by the people who are saying that he does, in fact, have the right to say it. The issue should not be "Does he have the right to write and perform 'Cop Killer'?" but "Why would he want to write 'Cop Killer'?" That i agree with. Like I said... it was interesting.

Over the last few weeks, I've been re-reading the Ender saga by Orson Scott Card. I personally feel that Ender's Game is one of the most important books ever written. I feel that everyone should read it at least once, and anyone with a position of authority and responsibility should read it several times. Even after reading all seven of the books for at least the second time each, I find myself wishing there was more. I want to know the whole life story of nearly every character. It's like meeting someone that your best friend admires... you want to know as much as possible about them. You feel like because they are part of the life of someone who is part of your life, they should be a part of yours too.
Every time I read these books, I have to examine my life and wonder how what I do compares. Not in an envious or worshipful way. The best thing about the characters in Card's books are the fact that there are no "heroes" or "villians." His characters are regular people in their passions and the fact that they have to make choices in thier lives... and that sometimes the choices are wrong... or are right and hurt a lot. The people in the books are by turns, selfish, sacrificing, honorable, cowardly, loving, mean, and so many other things that make you feel like they are real people you might now. If you've never read Ender's Game, go get a copy... now.

TBWITWW and I went to see The Matrix: Revolutions last night. Our opinion... see it in a second run or discount theater maybe a matinee. Visually it's worth seeing on a big screen, but the story is so-so at best. It's too slow paced (with a few scenes that are exceptions) to be an "action movie" but the philosophy aspects of it are about as deep as a Wal-Mart kiddie pool. There's not subtlety in this one, and they used up all their really nifty effects in the first movie. Even the climactic fight scene between Neo and Smith is kind of disappointing. If you've seen the other two, you'll go see this one, but try to see it at a cheaper price.
On the other hand, it was nice to spend an evening out with my wife. We don't get to do that enough. We like to rate the previews too... so Troy and (of course) LOTR look good, everything else looked bad. So, there you go.

Today is my mom's birthday. She is a truly remarkable woman. She's been through a lot, some good, some bad, and she's been amazing throughout. I really can't say anything that would accurately express how lucky I am to have been raised by this woman. (She did have some help, but for at least today, Dad gets the blame for all the bad habits.) My mother taught me resilience, strenghth of spirit, compassion, and that waiting tables is as important of a job as programming computers. I've done much in my life and much of it would not have happened without her strength.
Happy Birthday Mom!